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ei...i'm sort of courting this girl...i really like her...but she seems not to care at times and vice versa...i'm a bit confused about that...she makes me feel wanted at times but she makes me feel like shit also...she's luke-warm...this is my question...what am i lacking of? what should i do to stop this from happening? do you think i should continue courting? help me pls...
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Be friends
You worry too much. Be yourself and secure in it. The strength in it helps you, and the relationship.
"What am I lacking of?" is not the question then, for you will have sorted it out for yourself and would not even think to ask.She probably is just far from ready for commitment. That's where "lukewarm" comes from, so you might remember she is not the only girl there is.
You may not like this advice, so I'll not call it that. Give her some of her own back, and see if she is really a friend. A friend, I said.
Are YOU a friend?Definition: "A friend is a special person who knows all our faults and loves us still." Genuine.
Another, "Lovers come and go, but a friend is forever." What is sweet is when friendship grows into love.
Terry -
Be who you are , If things are meant to be, they will be. Enjoy life, it's not a rehearsal...This is it..
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here's my opinion
well, maybe she's just not feeling u. if she doesn't see the type of love u can give and feel for her then she just plain blind. I know this, I went through the same thing. be urself and don't please others and try to make them except you. please urself first and other wonderful women will see the gorgeous u inside as well as outside. just be friends with her and when u find someone else, then she'll realize what she missed out on and she'll regret it when she sees the tremendous amount of love one person, such as urself, can give a deserving woman. in my opinion she doesn't deserve u, u sound so warm hearted. and her being luke warm, u need to find the right "temperatured" woman.
If u r confused then whay should u be with her? is it really worth wasting ur time being with someone whowastes ur time? ask ur heart questions such as these and follow it always.
The heart u must follow,
because it will lead to a better tomorrow.
The mind you must not believe,
because it will deceive.
Your soul is the window from your eyes,
and when you find that special person, your body heat will start to rise..
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