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I need help. cuz, this guy I lost it to was cheating on me and I didn't even know it and so basically I got screwed over. it haunts me so much..
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Yes, betrayal is worse than the physical stuff.
It affects trust, and that is where the real hurt is.
Accept it as one of life's many losses, tons more yet to come, guaranteed.
I would suggest however, if you were one of his many, to get checked out to be sure you were not left with something more permanent than memory.
Terry -
we used protection though. he's the only guy I've been with and he had leukemia and he said that leukemia wasn't contagious.. well he had to go to the doctor every firday to get chemo injections and they had to take blood from him and test it and he wouldn've known if he had something else other than leukemia.. but i'm still worried cuz I'm with someone else...
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get used to it
look it happens, and it will probably happen again. just be true to YOURSELF and love will find you. or you could crazy glue his.....nevermind -
love yourself
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everything happens for a reason
I dated the first guy i slept with for 3 1/2 years before breaking up with him. I hated the fact that he wanted me to change, but in the end he lead to finding the man I married after being with him for 6 years. Everything happens for a reason, even if we can't see it for ourselves. Nothing is ever easy, least of all betrayal. But it will only make you stronger.
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