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I like this girl, what should I do, i’ve liked her for 9 or 10 years not, Help me please!
And i don’t want people just saying “Tell her how you really feel” because thats a load of bull.
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Haha...all your getting is bull
Well dude the simple fact is your going to have to tell her how you feel. Why don’t you just start asking her to places to come with you? Do you play sports tell her to come watch you stuff like that. And then when the moments right just tell her how you feel…cause thats the only way she is going to know. You keeping it from her everyday is making her just grow one more day farther way and one more chance to be in someone elses arms. So you look at it however you want…you just gotta find the timing and the place and run with it. -
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That can be creepy & make you feel like you wanna rip your heart outa your chest & show her your love…
tell her how you feel (no bull)... and if your shy around her, just let love take over & wash away the fear.. ask her out to dinner, or to a star wars contest.. I donno.. just make sure she’ll know how you really feel… -
One piece of advice...
Don’t rip your heart out and show her – most girls don’t like that very much, and if they do…. well you probably don’t want to go there!Anyway, there’s no easy way of saying it – you’re going to have to ask her out because otherwise you’ll never know. Maybe you could ask one of your female friends if they think she likes you – girls often see more than they let on!
Hope it works!
Louise x
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think she might feel the same??
You ever thought that maybe she likes you? i liked a guy for 3 years, and after he left to another school he emailed me and we talked, and i found out he liked me the whole time. So maybe… I don’t know, but you have to make a move. -
Take it from a 38 year old
This is one of those many tests in life that you gotta pass, cause it will make your life so much easier if you do! I am 38 years old, and I never told one single guy that I liked that I liked them- that is in 38 years!!!! I never learned to do that. I figured if they liked me the same way they would tell me, but if I told them first they might either reject me, or take advantage of me by saying they liked me when they really didn’t.So all I can say, is just DO it. If the person doesn’t like you that way, don’t take it personally- just shrug, continue to be friends and move on. But do something or you will regret it.
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Something that may bolster your courage
Hi. My name is Wendy, and I was scrolling through, just looking around at stuff, and I came across your post. I agree with everyone here that you should tell her. The thing that may give you some courage is this: I’ve been friends with this guy for about 7 years, and in love with him for most of it. I got married, divorced, blah blah blah. I just recently told him how I feel. Not only do I feel so much better knowing that he knows, but I found out that he feels the same way. We are in the process of figuring out how to handle this from here.
So, tell her! I told him in an e-mail, but I know people who’ve done it over the phone, in a voicemail, face to face, in a poem, dedicating a song on the radio, a million different ways. But, you have to tell her. If you don’t, she’ll never know how you feel, and you’ll always wonder if maybe she felt the same. Don’t leave yourself open to that kind of regret and years of playing the “what if” game. Get it out there, and find out what can happen.
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I know how you feel...
I know how you feel! I’ve liked a guy for 6 years!It hurts…there are ups and downs. You just got keep goin on. There is a reason for everything….and having a certain person in your head always-has a reason, too! -
shes called a muse
tell her how you feel....it is a load of bullshit
you gata show her and prove to her and make her see you! thats what makes a good man great. you dont have to slay a friggin lion with your bare hands(unless you think u could pull that off) just take what you have to work with, dont compromise your convictions and be a better man, workin for a girl is sometimes the best part of a relationship. sure give her a hint you like her but dont stalk her. and if she dont feel it, dont give up just keep getting better, she will get interested if you keep tryin to impress her. and if she never comes around you'll be a better guy in the end.
but ive been wrong before
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