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I cried, obviously by the title... but still. Seniors are leaving and I am left here. My friend is not talking to me, at all. I really like her and am sad. I may be moving, I don't know how far, could be across the country, could be in the same city. I don't really know. But it eats at me. I got told today that my poetry sucks by someone at school. So yeah. I cried. I hope that is understandable.
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crying is a good thing sometimes. it's a healthy release for all sorts of built up emotions. without it you eventually explode--you can't hold everything in forever. and sometimes it's harder to cry than to suck it up, so cry with pride (if that doesn't sound way too lame). i like crying...seriously. i mean, it sucks for sure, but it helps. a wise (though very funny) friend once told me that crying is like throwing up, that once you're finished, you feel much better. and sometimes when you have big things weighing on your mind, a little thing like a criticism can go a long way and trigger crying. I don't know... I sound like a therapist as usual, even though I'm not one.
Figure out if your friend is worth making up with. If she is then she'll talk to you when she's ready. You can't necessarily force someone to talk, but you can definitely try to let them know what's going on in your mind. no matter what happens you have to learn not to hold a grudge because it'll damage you instead.
Moving sucks but life happens. I don't know what it's like to move. I've always been the one who's friends move away from them. I suppose there isn't a real fix for that one except making peace with it, as hard as that sounds...everyone has their own way of doing it.
Feel better!!!!! Although I of all people know that's easier said than done. It's not like flipping a switch... I wish you all the best and hope I was some form of help!!
Love,
Adie
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