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i am in a relationship with this guy named marco…and it doesn’t really seem like he likes me as much as i like him…he tells me he loves me but sometimes i feel like he is ignoring my phone calls what should i do.? i need help!
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Same thing
Sounds like all the relationships I have went throught in my life. I always love the boy more and always get sooo attached because I want a serious relationship. Like the one I am in now…I love the boy with all my heart!! I just feel really deeply about this one, and he lives like 45 minutes away and I trust him. It’s just I think he is ignore my phone calls and I think he doesn’t love me as much as he says he does or even likes me for that matter. Kind of like that George Strait song called “I Don’t Think She Likes Me Anymore”...cept its the other way around. I’m going to talk to him soon about our problems. I mean the only way that I see is to tell him you want to talk to him and have a serious conversation with him. Do it in person…its the best thing ever!! I have to contact this boy by phone and tell him cause my parents are werid about me driving and krap to see him when he should, but he aint got a car and I’m 17…long story…sorry about the short verison right there. Anyways confront him and just tell him what you feel and what you think. But don’t make it into an arguement just tell him how you think and what makes you think that and stuff. Just be open and thats the best way you can with things. Have you tried talking to him? -
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well last week he went to new york 4 like 5 dayz and i was scared that he mite cheat on me…i mean he is like the most popular guy in school. he has like a car and he does come to c me….but when he came back from new york he was all happy and everything..i think he cheated on me but then he said that he has to come to my gouse because “we have to talk” i was sooooo worried…wow..i tought that he mite break up with me…so then i told him that if he is going to break up with me he can just do it over the phone there is no reason for him to c me crying..and he said no baby…we have to talk about trust and about all of them guys calling your house and all that crap… one nite when he was at mu house i asked himif he can c himself in the future being with me and he said”forever”.. i haven’t seen him in like a week or maybe even more and i’m worried that he is hiding something from me but when i ask him he said no…there are no secrets between us…i really do love him but i just don’t feel like he does…i mean i never felt like this…when he kisses me and then he touches my face i just get the biggest butterflies in my stomach…and when i ask him what he feels when he is with me he said “i just can’t put it in wordz, i feel like i belong with u”...i believe him for the moment but when he leaves…i don’t -
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It’s great that he came and told you that at your house. And its great that he said that he wanted to see you forever in his life. But I alos think its a girls way of being…always worrying if something is going wrong and what he is doing when you don’t know where he is at. We are sooo attached to guys and so worried all the time they are going to leave us, we don’t base the relationship on what its meant for…its meant for the two of you to be in love…not worrying or consistenly not feeling love by someone. I’ve stopped to think and be like he loves me and if I’m worried all the time and I don’t want to tell him everything then I don’t want to be wit him. Cause I mean you don’t have to tell the one you love everything, but you should atleast want to tell them everything…thats when you think you have found the one. It sounds just like girl issues we all go through. Good luck ]girly!!
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its over
yeah i know what u r saying but he just called me and said that there is no point in us being together… i flipped out…y would he say that, i mean he really loved me and i really loved him but he just choose to end it here like it doesn’t even matter. it just hurts seeing him just leave my life. not i do have a new boyfriend but its just not the same…he is very sweet and everything but i just pray that he is not going to make me suffer because it looks like he really wants to be with me…i just want to be in his heart and love somebody again…and have them love me tha way that i will love him. thats just my teory…what do u think and thank u for helping me out -
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I'm Sorry
I’m sorry things ended that way!! He sucks majorly!! I thought I was in love with a guy once…thought we had it all. I mean i thought he was the one I was going to spend the rest of my life with and then up one day he goes we need to talk (we never had a fight around that time and never had any hard times around that time). He said he didnt love me like he use too and then i told well i still loved him and he said it back. I slapped him and told him if he loved me and said it then he should still want to be with me, but he just walked away crying. I wonder sometimes if other forces or beings made us break apart…meaning parents friends, cause they didnt like him to much and the same for me. But we just went together…like two black sheep I guess. Now my best friend wants to date him and I want to see his move. Its GREAT to hear that you have a new boyfriend and he wants to be with you. Its always GREAT to find someone who wants to be with you…first step towards love, relationship, and trust!! Boys are sooo random and I hate it cause it hurts us like hell!! They think playing with our hearts is fun till they meet the one and she stomps on his heart. I jsut meet someone new recently and he has become my world…and over a month this has happened…opps i think i went to QUICK!! What do you think? I think the way i love this boy, i wonder if he loves me just as much…but i think sometimes he does…like when im with him and he says and does nice things. I guess you just have to trust the new guy for all he is worth and then when something goes wrong dont worry…your one step closer to finding the one. I just my “one” would already get here cause im tired of getting hurt and waiting! Your welcome…and thanks for listening and helpin me out in ways too! Respond soon!
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not too soon
nah gurl it ain’t too soon. i mean when u meet someone new and u like how they treat you well that just means that ur ex was not doing his job right. i know what u r going thru right now i felt the same way but in the end i just tought that it was going to end like this…and it did…i think u should go for it. try to fall in love and don’t hold back. and if he is the same as that other guy…well just be careful on what u do…don’t do some stupid sht like hurt yourself for that matter, cuz i have don’t that too and i would hate to c u like me. u seem like a cool person that i would normaly hang out with…and we have so much in common…we fall in love easily…thats #1…lolz…but it just feels good…my baby is treating me like a queen and i love that. nobody has ever treated me like that….ever….and i love that. ifeel special for once in a very long time. he could be the one…at least thats what i’m feeling…i know he doesn’t have anything to hide because we r on the phone like 24/7 and we talk about whatever…we have no secrets…what do u think about that? -
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well my relationship ended
Well I think I spoke to soon about saying I loved him I guess. Cause he just broke up with on monday, cause he says he never gets to see me and he doesn’t want to miss someone that much and never get to hold them in his arms…kinda sweet but kinda mean all at the same time. But he told me he is going to call me every night and talk to me cause he wants too and he says he still loves me and he says that when he gets his car that he is coming down to see me. So maybe when he see’s me again that he will fall in love with me again cause I’ve never felt this connection with someone before…ever. I mean its just like wow bam its love kinda deal. Kinda like the stuff you find in fairytales
! I think youre right about us being the same as people. I do fall in love quick cause I want to fall in love so bad!! I promise I want go do stupid stuff cause I did that once and it was the stupidest guy in the world!! I dont know if its a bad thing to fall in love easy…but its not like i fall in love because someone says they love me…I just see what I could have with them and I just love them…lol…kinda stupid. But as I said before…I just want me one to come along and take me off somewhere to live happyliy or some what of that to the end of forever…lol. Thats great about ur new boyfriend. Yall sound like yall are taking things really well and he sounds like a keeper!! Its great that youve found someone who wants to tell you everything even though they dont have too. Good luck with this guy and I hope he is your one!! Respond soon…tell me what you think about what I think of that guy I use to date…lol
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yeahhh
yeah i’m still here i ain’t going nowhere for a while…i just took a lil break away from ppl…just to c how it feels to be alone…lolz…so howz it going? -
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good
its going good…well i g2g bye.
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